Written by We dive into the ethos behind Somuno. We’re not about rigid rules—we’re about shared values, respectful communication, and a focus on solutions.
Mia and Yolanda discuss why we steer clear of negativity and fear-driven narratives and instead, create a counterbalance space where community members empower each other and channel their energy into what we can do, here and now. We’re not ignoring the world’s challenges—we’re just choosing to not let them define our conversations or derail our progress.
If you’re ready to build something real, positive, and purpose-driven, you’re welcome here. And if not? That’s okay too. 💛
🛑 No doom-scrolling energy.
✅ Radical positivity.
🌍 Real-world action.
💬 Respectful dialogue.
Want to be part of the shift? Reach out and connect. We need all kinds of people to build a thriving future.
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Transcript
(00:00) welcome back to Simuno where we’re creating a platform where communities and individuals who have positive projects can come together Today we’re going to talk a little bit about the we don’t want to call it rules but the how we want to work So this is different from what has been before and the topic for today is negativity and I’m going to pass it over to Mia Yeah like you say uh rules doesn’t sound nice but uh we can call it values and ethics and morals and and uh a nice way to approach each other and subjects And uh today the the climate
(00:43) the the way people talk to each other the way they communicate is very often negative it’s against each other attacking each other and just because someone has a different opinion it doesn’t mean you have to attack it If you have this feeling that you need to attack someone because of their opinion it’s very good that you look at yourself and see why is this affecting me what is my problem why do I have this feeling that I need to attack it and it doesn’t really matter how bad the other opinion is It tells you more about yourself than
(01:30) about the other person Because if it affects you in the way that you need to be aggressive you need to fight it you need to talk bad about it or whatever It tells you more about yourself that there’s something there that you need to heal in yourself so that you can respect others opinion even if they are nothing compared to yours and very far away from your perspective Well in the same way that me and I are black and white today she’s giving you the point of view on a personal level and I want to talk at community level
(02:09) because I’ve been involved with a lot of groups I’ve had to be coordinator for a group and this issue has come up and not just talking negativity about attacking other people or you know we don’t believe their point of view I’m I’m talking about negativity on a general scale So one of the issues that I have found is it doesn’t matter what type of group it is It’s always about fear a and things that are impossible And this is what we want to avoid in Somino Now there have been accusations of like censorship Oh we have to talk about
(02:45) everything that’s going wrong if we don’t talk about what’s happening in the world and what they’re doing And what it has no place here Now there are a lot of people who are not going to like that cuz we faced that before and that’s fine But there’s so many groups if you want to discuss you know the evil government programming etc etc Go and find a group that talks about that But here we just wanted to make it very clear that we’re going to focus on what we can do with what we have right where we are now So
(03:20) the positive not because we’re ignoring what’s going on in the world We’re perfectly aware of it but you have to continue despite that And also that’s where the counterbalance comes in And again me and I in black and white which still amuses me So yes that’s all going on there but we don’t want to be in that muddy water of like oh my god it’s never going to work and it’s so hard and they’re going to stop us No we’re all already doing it So this will be a counterbalance which is why as Mia was saying everyone’s welcome Everyone is
(03:58) welcome but keep keep the whatever you want to call it negativity crap darkness whatever you want to call it keep it out of here That’s not the space for this And and it may sound harsh but if you feel the need to come in and and and make sure that people are aware of how difficult this is going to be as Mia said take a look at yourself and ask yourself why And I think that the source to both of these things are the same Like you say it’s fear And I think that the people who really want to talk about this negative
(04:42) all the time they do it from a perspective that they think that we can solve the problem by looking at fear by being by scaring everyone we can wake them up or or this is the way I need to fight this evil otherwise the evil will win The problem is as soon as we we go into fighting mood or we go into fear mood and the deeper we dive into it the the more we create more of it and of course it’s it’s good to know So a little bit of information can be good but as soon as you have seen this whatever it is sorry but as soon as you have seen it
(05:32) you don’t have to deep dive in it all all the time and repeat it and and increase it and talk about it more and more and more and take the sledgehammer and try to bang it into other other people’s head uh just see it notice it and then we think that the way to change the world is to focus on what can we do instead Not putting more energy into the bad stuff not putting more logs into the fire Don’t if nobody goes to the war and there will be no war It’s like put the energy the other way So so this is just um just so you know
(06:14) if you want to participate in this we are going to be annoyingly positive We are going to uh not bring in all that negativity into Somuno I repeat not because we’re not aware of it not because we don’t understand that some people’s role is that you know there are for example if you have a community we’re not all going to be teachers because then how will we get fed we’re not all going to be farmers because you know somebody needs to do something else The best community is made up of a a mixture of different abilities And in
(06:56) this particular community we’re going to focus on highlighting the good stuff which really irritates a lot of people and I don’t understand So just be aware of that If somebody comes in for example on the post on the comments they’re trying to be really negative whatever it is it will get deleted There’ll be no twoing and throwing understanding chatting it will get deleted So this is not the place for you if you want to bring all that crap into this space And if you really want to work with it and change it you are very welcome for a
(07:35) coaching session See Mia has the patience for that I don’t If you want accountability and someone who does it in a uh more direct and not as fluffy way I can do that for you Again the dark and the light But honestly That’s why we work very well together So that’s all we wanted to say today Uh just so this is not yet another fluffy group This is not yet another project group Genuinely this is a counterbalance and anybody is welcome Believe the crap outside and everybody is welcome just because what you say we are all needed
(08:19) a society a group a community or whatever can’t just be full of one type of person because then we will starve or or whatever So we need all all of you to join So if if what we are saying what we are doing resonates with you do don’t hesitate to take contact and be a part of it.